“You have everything you need to fix yourself.” This statement is misleading.

To start with, you are not broken and you do not need to be fixed. Yes, maybe things are not going the way you want them to on some level and you feel bad or even horrible. You are not broken, however. It’s more likely that some part of you is out of balance or in conflict, whether that is mental, emotional, physical or all of these.

Some pundits in the helping industry posit that a person “has everything ...


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